Eight More Weeks of Waiting

The officials in Nigeria did confirm that they have a referral for us, but they expect that the paperwork for the child will not be available for about eight weeks.

We received an update about our referral, but it was not exactly the update we were hoping for. The officials in Nigeria did confirm that they have a referral for us, but they expect that the dossier (paperwork) for the child will not be available for about eight weeks. We are taking this timeframe with a grain of salt, as we know things can and do change, but we were hoping for the paperwork sooner than this. Once we get the dossier and accept the referral, we can travel to begin the bonding process.

We do have a few prayer requests:

  • Pray for patience and joy as we wait. We know that the Lord is sovereign over this timeline, yet waiting is hard.
  • In mid February Nigeria is having national elections, and in early March Lagos State is having local elections. Please pray for a smooth, peaceful election process and for the outcomes to be favorable with regard to adoption. If there are changes as a result of the elections, please pray that the impact and downtime is minimal, particularly for the families already in Nigeria.
  • Finally, pray for the families that are in Nigeria right now in various stages of the process. Because of the U.S. government shutdown, some of the consulate and embassy employees are not being paid, and this is likely slowing down the process. Pray for a quick end to this shutdown and for these families to be able to come home.

Thank you all for all your prayers and support – we could not do it without you all.

Markus & Sarah

Good News & a Prayer Request

We still have several hurdles to go, but it is encouraging to see some movement.

We wanted to send out a brief update – some good news! First off, we have official approval from the Nigerian government to travel for our adoption. This is very unusual, as this typically comes after a couple accepts a referral. We are thankful for this, as it is one less hurdle to traveling when the time comes (even though our travel date is still up in the air).

Also, we have been told that Nigeria likely has a referral for us! We have not received the official paperwork yet, so the details are few, but we are hopeful we will get this paperwork soon. Until then, we have shared with some of you in person a few more details, but we will wait until we have official news to post any details here. All in all, this is very good news, so please pray that we get the official paperwork soon.

Once we receive an official referral, we will look it over and have one or two doctors who are familiar with international adoption review it as well. When we officially accept a referral, we are considered matched. We then will apply for our Nigerian visas and make final preparations before traveling.

All this said – we are getting closer! We still have several hurdles to go, but it is encouraging to see some movement.

Again, we would greatly appreciate your prayers that we receive the official paperwork as soon as possible. We are are so excited to get more information and a picture!

Markus & Sarah

Waiting in the Season of Advent

Waiting for earthly blessings echoes some of the deepest longings of our hearts – for the world to be set right, and for God to dwell with his people forever. 

Waiting.  It’s a word that describes much of life – especially as a Christian.  Children wait for big milestones, like a birthday or other fun event.  Teens wait for the chance to get a driver’s license and graduate.  Adults wait for jobs, vacations, and periods of rest.  Ultimately, as believers, we wait for the consummation of Christ’s kingdom, where he will dwell with us in the New Creation.

From Genesis onward, Scripture is filled with waiting.  Following the fall, Adam and Eve waited for the Seed that would crush the serpent’s head.  Noah patiently built the ark and waited for God to deliver his family and the preserved animals through the floodwaters.  The patriarchs waited for God to fulfill the promises he made to Abraham.  Moses waited as he led his people out of Egypt and towards the Promised Land and then waited 40 years for his people to enter it.  The history of the nation of Israel is one of waiting – from the waiting for a king to waiting for deliverance because of their sin.  The prophets waited for judgment and deliverance, and also for the new covenant to come.

In church history, Advent is a season that waiting takes on special significance for the new covenant believer.  During Advent, we look back to Christ’s first coming, remembering the prophecies and the events that led up to the birth of Jesus, but we also look forward to Christ’s second coming to fulfill the promises of Scripture.  We eagerly await this day where all the wrongs will be set right and all the tears will be wiped away.  This is what Christians celebrate at Christmas – not just the coming of God incarnate, but the dawning of the age to come with Christ as King.  In this, we celebrate with the certain hope that he will accomplish all he has promised.

So we wait.  As we begin this Advent season, we feel the reality of waiting more than ever because of our adoption.  We still do not know what lies in store for us in this adoption.  It is our desire to get a referral any day for two children and travel soon to bring them home.  We often check our emails and messages to see if we have any news, and we struggle with anxious hearts as the days go by.  Waiting is hard – sometimes extremely hard.  Yet in waiting, we are reminded of the Sovereign One who knows our plight far better than we do, and he loves these children far more than we will ever be able to.  Waiting for earthly blessings echoes some of the deepest longings of our hearts – for the world to be set right, and for God to dwell with his people forever.  We are reminded of his promises that he will make all things new, and even now is orchestrating every molecule of the universe for the good of those who love him.

So we wait in confidence – not in the confidence that all our desires will be fulfilled on earth, but that God is good, and he is on his throne.  He will accomplish all his purposes, and those purposes are ultimately for our good and for his glory.

Charles Wesley captures this spirit of Advent well:

Come, Thou long-expected Jesus,
Born to set Thy people free;
From our fears and sins release us,
Let us find our rest in Thee.
Israel’s Strength and Consolation,
Hope of all the earth Thou art;
Dear Desire of every nation,
Joy of every longing heart.

Born Thy people to deliver,
Born a child and yet a King,
Born to reign in us forever,
Now Thy gracious kingdom bring.
By Thine own eternal Spirit
Rule in all our hearts alone;
By Thine all sufficient merit,
Raise us to Thy glorious throne.

We hope you have a blessed Advent season as you look forward to celebrating both the miracle of the incarnation and the promise of Christ’s return.

Markus & Sarah

 

Thank You & Small Update

Thank You

We want to thank everyone who participated in the spaghetti dinner a couple of weeks ago.  We were extremely blessed by the love, support, and generosity of everyone who attended.  We are also grateful for the many who were unable to attend but still reached out in support and encouragement.   Also, thanks to all who donated desserts for the dessert silent auction and helped set up and tear down – we could not have done it without you!  We want to give a special thank you to Levi & Emily Secord and Jim & Bev Ornell for hosting the event and preparing all the delicious food.  Words cannot express how grateful we are – thanks again!

Thanks also to everyone who bought a t-shirt both earlier in the summer and in this latest second round.  We just received word that the second round has been printed, and we will get them on Friday.  We will contact those who ordered in the second round (or have not received their first round) early next week.

Adoption Update

While we were hoping to have bigger news to share, we are still waiting for a referral.  Representatives from our agency traveled to Nigeria for a week in mid September, and they were able to visit several orphanages and speak with the adoption personnel in country.  It was an encouraging trip, and it was helpful for us to hear that they are optimistic we will receive a referral “soon.”  We are not sure exactly what this means for a timeline, but we are encouraged by this update.  We are praying that we will receive a referral by the end of this year.  While there are no guarantees, we are trusting in the Lord’s sovereign plan for our family.

In other news, we have bracelets for sale!  The suggested donation is $1, but if you have already donated and would like one just let us know.  Thanks to Aaron & Liz Rothermel for starting this fundraiser for us!

Prayer Requests

Please pray that we receive a referral soon!  We are excited to bring home our kids, and we hope that this will be sooner rather than later.  Pray for patience and contentment for us as we wait.  Please also pray for our future children. Specifically for their health and safety, and that God would be preparing their hearts for their future family.

We love you all so much – thanks for your support and encouragement!

Markus & Sarah

Fundraising News

We are excited to let you know about some fundraising we are doing for our adoption!

Spaghetti Dinner

Some friends of ours will be hosting a spaghetti dinner fundraiser for us at the City Hall in Albertville on Saturday September, 15.  The dinner will be a freewill donation, and there will be a dessert silent action, bracelets for sale, and an opportunity to order t-shirts.  All donations will go towards our adoption expenses.

Dinner Served: 5:00 PM to 7:00 PM

Dessert Silent Auction will close at 6:30 PM

We need to have an idea of how many people we will be serving.  If you could please let us know if you will be able to attend either via the Facebook Event RSVP or via email that would be great!

Second Round of T-Shirts

Today we are also opening the second round of t-shirt orders today!  If you wanted a t-shirt and did not get one the first round, here is the link to put in an order.  This round will close on Monday, September 17th.

Prayer Requests

Please continue to pray that we would receive a referral soon for two children.  Also pray for two staff members from our agency, who are traveling to Nigeria in mid September to strengthen contacts on the ground and hopefully do what they can to smooth out the process for U.S. families adoptiong from Nigeria.

Thank you again for all the love and support that you have shown to us.  We look forward to seeing many of you on the 15th!

Markus & Sarah

T-Shirt Reminder & Another Easy Way To Help

T-Shirt Order Reminder

We want to thank everyone who has given to our adoption fundraiser so far! We are very blessed to have such supportive friends and family. If you have not yet ordered a t-shirt and would like to do so, please do it quickly here as we are closing our shirt sales on Thursday of this week.  We may do another order later this summer if there is interest, but we might not, so if you are sure you want one this is the time to get your order in. Thanks again for all your love and support!

An Easy Way to Help

For those who shop on Amazon, one easy way to help is use the link below. By using the link below and shopping as you normally do, we get a percentage of the sale to use towards our adoption. You still get the same prices and other benefits, we just benefit too!

The link is: https://amzn.to/2K1n5hu

You can easily make a favorite shortcut to our referral link so we get credit every time you shop through Amazon. We linked to different ways to do this below for the most popular systems. If you have any questions or issues with this, let us know!

Make a Favorite in Safari for iOS (iPhone & iPad)

Make a Favorite in Chrome (Windows & Mac)

Make a Favorite in Safari (Mac)

Adoption Update & Fundraising News

Waiting for two new Yagers and launching our T-shirt fundraiser!

Waiting for Two More Yagers

Its hard to believe we are 10 months in to our adoption journey! It has been awhile since we’ve sent out an update – mainly because there has not been much news. At present time we are just waiting for a referral from Nigeria. We did officially change our request from either one or two children to a sibling group of two! We are thrilled to be growing from a couple to a family of four. 🙂

We are still hoping to get a referral any time and travel this fall, but that is always subject to change. The Lord has been very gracious to us and the waiting has been easier than expected, though the longer we wait the more excited and impatient we get. Please pray for continued grace for us and for a referral soon!

Fundraising: T-Shirt Orders!

We are also excited to announce the start of our t-shirt fundraiser. The shirts are 100% cotton and do shrink in the wash some. (After washing they seem to be very typical size). The shirts are very soft. (If you have ever seen or had a Thrivent “Live Generously” shirt, they are very comparable.) The youth shirts will be the same design as the adult shirts but may come in a slightly different shade of green.

In order to get shirts by July, we need to have our order placed by Thursday, June 21. It is possible we may do another printing if there is interest, but not guaranteed. We will be offering our adoption t-shirts for a suggested donation of $15 for adult sizes and $12 for youth sizes. If you are interested in supporting our adoption process and expenses in this way please click on the Google Form here to place your order. You can pay via cash, check, or online via our GoFundMe page. If you have any questions at all we would be happy to answer them.

With our decision to adopt two children, the total costs for the adoption are a bit more clear. Even though some costs of the adoption double when bringing home two siblings, we are glad that we have a better idea of our total goal we need to save and raise. As we continue in the process we are still considering other fundraising ideas and will keep our GoFundMe goal amount updated as we continue to get more concrete and final cost numbers (i.e. final plane ticket prices, lodging prices, etc.).

Thanks so much for all your support. We’ve been overwhelmed by the love and care people continue to show us, and it makes us even more excited to bring home our kids to such an amazing group of family and friends.